And so the word lesbian, hurled or whispered as accusation, is used to focus male hostility on women who dare to rebel, and it is also used to frighten and bully women who have not yet rebelled. Why, they say small amounts of wine are even good for you!
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Especially, for the most creative scientists and engineers, work tends to be largely a surrogate activity. We have many different faces, and we do not have to become each other in order to work together. Only then do young men cross-dress openly, for the time of the celebration.